We ask for so much in this life, yet we often fail to notice what we give back. We are constantly asking for help but neglect to provide it for others. We promise to become better people, yet we don’t always help others help themselves. We complain about our surroundings and remain dissatisfied with what we have. We wish for more money, a better home, a nicer car, and an overall improved life. However, we rarely ask ourselves, "How can I make my life and the lives of others better?" We seldom express gratitude for what we have achieved, and we often overlook our ability to make a difference in someone else's day, even with something as simple as a smile or a small gesture.

We have been conditioned to always want and to give little in return. Life is about experiencing the physical world and appreciating its beauty. We can drive nice cars and have money in the bank, but ultimately, these material possessions stay behind when we pass on. What we take with us are the knowledge, wisdom, and emotions we have built into our souls during our time here. We carry our personality and cherished memories with us. When we transition to the spirit world, we do so with the love we have for ourselves and others, becoming one with the creator of life. 

In the spirit realm, we continue living with all that we have achieved within our souls, which is the true currency of heaven, rather than material possessions. Enrich your life now by creating experiences that your soul can carry forward into eternity. Embrace the true essence of who you are and nurture the spiritual side of yourself—not necessarily through church or religious texts, but by opening your heart and allowing your soul to express itself. 

Fill your life with joy by helping others and recognizing that their lives are just as important as your own. Experience everything you can while living on Earth, but take a moment to consider what you can offer to others—that is where your personal growth occurs. 

While climbing the corporate ladder and achieving success in the physical world is admirable, also listen to your soul and nourish your spiritual side. You’ll be amazed at how good you will feel and how deeply connected you will become to your own spirit. Show others that humanity exists in this world and strive to make it a place of love and excitement, rather than negativity and gloom, which so many experience.

Open your hearts, allow your inner voice to guide you, and share happiness, love, and kindness with compassion to everyone you meet. When we ponder the question of true love, we must remember that it begins within us and radiates outward. 

Enjoy your life,  

Darren Hart

I am writing this letter concerning a court order, case number SD22P00475, dated 12th September 2023.

This is in regard to recent events that have heightened my concerns for the safety of my children and the unreasonable behaviour that i have experienced in response of contacting Carl Carter regarding the children Freddie Carter & Charlie Carter.

In August 2024, I dropped the children off as planned at 6pm and needed to email Carl about Freddie. During the school holidays, Freddie secured a small job at a local cafe, working for one hour on Saturday mornings. This job has given Freddie a sense of independence and the enjoyment of earning some pocket money. It has positively encouraged him, aiding in his maturation. That evening, I informed Carl that Freddie was scheduled to work at 12pm the following day. Carl's response was a firm "NO, he's not going." Despite this, I sent another email explaining that Freddie was eager to work and that it was in both parents' best interest to prioritize Freddie's wishes for a positive outcome.

Carl reiterated his refusal, noting that all emails on the matter were on file. He insisted that I call him, so I did, to convey that Freddie wanted to do his job. I mentioned that if it was not possible for him to go due to Carl's plans, I could pick Freddie up and he could spend the night at home instead..Carl stated that if I attempted to pick him up, he would refuse to come with me. My concerns for my children escalated when Carl began shouting at me over the phone, especially in front of Freddie. I expressed my intention to call the police as my worries for my children's welfare intensified. Carl has a history of mental health issues and has previously exhibited unreasonable behavior towards me, which has led to the authorities being notified.. When Carl exhibits such aggressive behavior, I fear for the children's safety because he becomes unpredictable, and he has assaulted Charlie in the past, which led to the issuance of this court order. Concerned about Carl's behavior towards me, my partner intervened over the phone to try and defuse the situation. However, Carl became aggressive towards him as well, challenging him to come over. Meanwhile, Freddie was there, witnessing everything that was happening.. Carl's behavior was alarming the neighbor, who approached with concerns, asking him to stop shouting, all in front of Freddie. Eventually, the situation calmed down as my partner managed to soothe him, explaining that everyone must work together for the children's best interests.Carl became apologetic and acknowledged that his behavior was unacceptable, expressing regret for letting a bad week influence his actions inappropriately. The next day, Freddie came home and was deeply distressed after seeing his dad's behavior, fearing that it might be repeated, as it had been with Charlie before. Freddie & Charlie have both admitted in the past that they still remain scared of there dad after what had happened to charlie when carl assaulted charlie.

I sensed that Carl apologized for his behavior and assured me it wouldn't happen again. I made it clear that should I feel the need to pick up the children at any point due to safety concerns, I would prefer not to involve the police, as I wish to prevent such situations from occurring in the first place. Since this incident, I have been monitoring the children's visits to their father's house and ensuring they do not feel upset or uncomfortable about Carl's behavior.

There have been some issues with Freddie misbehaving at school, and I've realized it's crucial for both parents to collaborate in the children's best interest. I established a punishment forHoping to improve Freddie's behavior, I reached out to Carl via email, asking for his support while the children were with him that weekend. I requested that he continue Freddie's punishment and take the time to talk with him, emphasizing that both parents are united in their approach. Carl informed me that he won't continue the punishment when he's with him, as what happens in my house is unrelated to him when the children are at his house for the weekend. Firstly, this will confuse Freddie and won't help him understand the errors of his ways, and secondly, Freddie needs a father who will have his best interests at heart. I reached out to Carl, hoping he would collaborate with me for Freddie's benefit, but Carl became obstructive and once again aggressive over the phone, shouting at me.I handed the phone to my partner, hoping he could defuse the situation and explain that we need to cooperate for Freddie's sake. However, Carl became aggressive towards my partner, mocking him over the phone and being extremely obstructive with his instantly aggressive behavior.Carl was yelling into the phone. After the call ended, it was clear that Carl was aggressive once more, and it was only an hour before the children were supposed to spend the weekend with him. On Friday, 4th October 2024, I decided not to send the children to him because I was concerned about his mental state and the children's safety, which is the priority.. I am very concerned that I will never be able to communicate with Carl about the children because he is so aggressive towards me and clearly does not have the children's best interests at heart. As the children grow older, they need their father to understand their needs and assist in situations where his help and support are crucial. I am concerned about the unpredictability of Carl's behavior, and it's vital that the children feel secure with their father and not anxious about his actions, as they have witnessed them before..I am requesting the court's intervention to provide guidance on moving forward, with the hope of establishing communication with Carl through a managed intervention, so I do not have to endure this kind of behavior from Carl concerning the children. My goal is to ensure the children are in a safe environment with their father and to have both parents support the children as needed. However, I cannot achieve this alone due to his unpredictable aggressive behavior.

I have significant concerns about sending the children to Carl's due to his behavior, and I will refrain from doing so until I receive instructions from the court on resolving this matter.

I await the court's response.

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